Pastor John D Jakes

What is God about? I find it ironic how often the answer to that question will not reflect a person’s personal theology about Him. For example, a person like me who has been saved through Christ’s loving and sacrificial giving of Himself of the cross will so often declare that God is about relationships. Yet, when asked how a person is to become godly their answer suddenly becomes about following a list of rules. So, which is it? rules or relationship? A real question to ask ourselves is this, “Is God a rule giver or a life giver?” I realize that God is, in a sense, both. However, if that is as far as we go then we are ignoring a fundamental question: why did God give the rules in the first place? The answer: God gave the rule so that we would have life. Where is life found? It is found in a relationship with God. That is what His teaching points us to. It is what His teaching asks us to believe and trust. Throughout the Scripture we see that God is all about relationships. He wants a relationship with us, and He wants us to value our relationships with others.

The overarching focus of God’s commands is all about relationships. Why do we make it about rules? Is it because of our own desire to put God in a box so that we can control Him? Is it because we are uncomfortable with a relationship where we are the dependent? God’s purposes have always been about a relationship with us. He walked with Adam and Eve in the garden to have a relationship with them. He called Abraham his friend. He spoke with Moses as a man does with another man. These individuals are the most common ones used to establish God as the supreme law giver. Yet, we see God working so intentionally in all their lives to show to us His intention to meet with us on the field of relationship. Could it be that we have missed something as we have interpreted God to be so interested in the law?

Our entire understanding of godliness will change if we make it about relationships. Suddenly, we see the whole Old Testament in a new light. Suddenly, we can bring passages of Scripture together that seemed to challenge one another. Suddenly, Paul’s words to the Galatians make so much more sense. He says, “Therefore the law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ, so that we may be justified by faith.” (Galatians 3:24) What is the tutor? The tutor is the law. What is its purpose? Its purpose is to lead us to Christ! It does not lead us to religion, or ritual. The law leads us to a person. That person is Jesus Christ.

Do you find yourself making God’s call about following rules? Resist the temptation to lessen God’s call by making it about rules or rituals. Can you imagine the God of the Bible settling for just being an impersonal King? The Bible can’t. He is a personal King who is also our Friend and Shepherd. He wants a relationship that brings life. He desires to be a real person in our lives. He wants to be a person of importance to us. He is important. He is real. Do we treat Him like a statue or a marble inscription?

Something to think about,
Pastor John